The Ultimate Networking Playbook for Your Dream Internship

Most students think networking is “extra credit.”
Top candidates know networking is the internship search.

Tons of internships are filled through connections — often before they’re posted.
This guide shows you exactly how to become that candidate: known, trusted, and referred.

📥 Step 0: Build Your Networking Arsenal (Before Sending a Single Message)

You wouldn’t show up to an interview without preparing — same goes for networking.

Download the Path Launch Networking Toolkit (free):

• ✅ LinkedIn profile optimization checklist

• ✅ Proven outreach templates for alumni, recruiters, and hiring managers

• ✅ Coffee chat question bank

• ✅ Networking tracker (Google Sheets & Notion)

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💡 Insider Truth: If your profile is weak, your messages get ignored — and you only get one shot per contact.

🎯 Step 1: Target the People Who Can Actually Get You In

Random outreach = wasted effort.

Your goal is to find warm paths into your dream companies.

Your 3 Lists:

1. Dream Companies (10–20) — where you’d be thrilled to work.

2. Target Roles — the internships you’d actually accept.

3. Connectors — alumni, recruiters, current interns, hiring managers.

Warmest contacts to start with:

• Alumni from your school

• Students who’ve interned where you want to work

• Club/conference connections

• Friends-of-friends

💡 Pro Move: Use LinkedIn’s alumni tool → filter by company & role → send targeted requests.

✉️ Step 2: The 3-Message Networking Sequence (That Gets Replies)

Message 1 – Connection Request (150–300 characters)

Hi [Name], I’m a [year] student at [School] interested in [industry/role]. I admire your work at [Company] and would love to connect.

Message 2 – Coffee Chat Ask (after they accept)

Thanks for connecting! I’m exploring [industry/role] and noticed your experience at [Company]. Would you be open to a quick 15-min chat to share your insights?

Message 3 – Referral Ask (after building rapport)

Your advice on [specific topic] was incredibly helpful. I’m applying for [Role] at [Company] — if you feel comfortable, I’d greatly appreciate a referral or intro to the hiring team.

💡 Insider Trick: Always add “if you feel comfortable” — it lowers resistance and makes a yes more likely.

☕ Step 3: Running a Coffee Chat Like a Closer

A coffee chat is not a job interview.
It’s a trust-building conversation where you:

1. Make them like you

2. Make them remember you

3. Make it easy to help you later

Structure:

• 2 min → Thank them, share your quick background

• 8 min → Their career story & role at [Company]

• 5 min → Ask industry-specific questions

• 2 min → Thank them, express desire to stay in touch

Questions that get gold:

• What do you enjoy most about working at [Company]?

• What skills do you see top interns have?

• How did you land your first role in [industry]?

💡 Pro Move: Send a thank-you email that includes a detail they mentioned — it proves you listened.

🔄 Step 4: Staying Top-of-Mind Without Being Annoying

Networking fails when you disappear.
It works when you stay relevant without over-contacting.

Every 4–6 weeks:

• Engage with their LinkedIn posts

• Send an article relevant to your last chat

• Share your progress (“I recently completed X and thought of our conversation…”)

💡 Recruiter Insight: 90% of referrals happen because you were remembered when the role opened.

🚪 Step 5: The Referral Conversion Formula

When it’s time to ask for a referral:

Script:
I saw [Role] is open at [Company] and immediately thought of our conversation about [topic]. I believe my [skill/experience] aligns well. If you feel comfortable, I’d be grateful for a referral or intro to the hiring team.

Why it works:

• Specific to a role

• Ties back to your previous chat

• Low-pressure wording

❌ Networking Killers to Avoid

• Asking for a job in your first message

• Copy-paste outreach to everyone

• Following up every few days

• Losing track of contacts and repeating yourself

• Never giving value back (share resources, insights, or encouragement)

✅ Weekly Networking Action Plan

Monday: Send 5 targeted connection requests
Tuesday: Follow up with new connections
Wednesday: 1–2 coffee chats
Thursday: Engage with your network’s posts
Friday: Update your networking tracker & prep next week’s outreach

🚀 Your Next Step

Cold applications keep you invisible.
Networking makes you unforgettable.

💡 Bonus: Every Tuesday, we send the best internships across business, tech, and more straight to your inbox. No spam. Just real opportunities.

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Till next time,
Path Launch Team